I'm in My 40s and My Daughters Are in Their 20s—We Agree These 17 Beauty Products Are A++
Let's call them universal crowd-pleasers.
Tennille Jenkins is a Who What Wear Editor in Residence and Los Angeles–based beauty, wellness, and fashion expert who is on a mission to empower women at every stage of life.
As a mom of two girls (Xia is 23, and May is 29), I've helped take care of their skin and hair for years. However, it wasn't until about eight years ago that we really started to come together, enjoy, and have fun with a variety of beauty categories. For example, my younger daughter, Xia, didn't always wear makeup, but after living in South Korea for a while, she came back and had an entirely new level of appreciation for makeup.
Beauty is never once size fits all, and despite the fun we would have when we began to experiment with new hair, skincare, body, and makeup products, it definitely took us a while to figure out what was actually best for each of our concerns and needs. Not surprisingly, not everything that suits me, suits them, and vice versa. Over the years, we've really homed in, and we joke that we run our own little testing laboratory here at home. So when we say that the below products are an overlapping list of things that all three of us truly love, we're saying that they work for someone in their early 20s, late 20s, and then someone in their late 40s. In a world where so many products seem marketed to a certain demographic—whether younger or older—it's pretty special that these staples have found their way into each of our hearts, and we feel like we can't live without them. Keep scrolling, and enjoy!
A product that we all fell in love with this year is this tinted SPF from Live Tinted. We traveled to Italy this summer, and this is what each of us wore throughout the vacation. The brand did such a great job with the formulation, the shade range, the coverage, the luminosity… It's just hitting every single thing that each of us is looking for in a high-quality SPF. A definite favorite.
People are totally sleeping on this one, but it is such a good eye product. I first discovered it when I was doing a campaign with the brand, and both of my daughters were like, "You just won't shut up about this product!" So when they finally started to use it, they were like, Ohhhh okay, we get it now. It's wonderful on its own, but it's also so good under makeup.
This is such a tip-top product. For the most part, all three of us wash our hair once a week or so, and this stuff just gets through all of the built-up sweat and gunk and keeps the scalp really clean. May deals with some irritation that flares up and causes flaking, and this stuff has really helped her over the years.
Another Briogeo product we love is this Sleek Stick. Truly, the only con is that we all use it, and it's small, so we run out super quickly. The versatility is so great though. When I have my hair down, and I just want to keep the little curls in the front smooth, it's really good. Obviously, it's also great if you're doing a slick-back style or want to smooth any flyaways. It's pocket-size, so you can take it to the gym or really wherever!
This. Hair dryer. The Dyson comes with us wherever we go, and even when we're traveling and we know the hotel is going to have a hair dryer, we bring the Dyson. I started using mine in 2019 or 2020, and as soon as Xia went away to college, I was like, oh no, I'm going to have to buy another one because my daughters were sharing one at that point. None of us feel like we can live without it, so now all three of us have a Dyson hair dryer.
Jo Malone's Wood Sage & Sea Salt fragrance is huge in our house, and we also love the brand's Peony & Blush Suede. We actually love layering the two—it's just clean and beautiful, and they smell so good together. During the holidays, the brand often sells them as a set, which is why we started layering them together in the first place.
This is a new favorite of everyone in the house. I've been working with CeraVe on a campaign, and the brand just sent this cream to me a few weeks ago. I told my daughters that they were not going to believe this cream because it's just so good! Xia has been a CeraVe person because she has eczema, but I hadn't used it on myself for a very long time. Anyway, when you take into account the cost, ingredients, and the incredibly hydrated results you get, this has to be hands down the best body cream I have ever used. I know that's saying a lot, but the fact that someone who has eczema can use it and someone who just likes taking care of their skin can use it—it's just such a phenomenal product.
We are all so obsessed with the bodywashes from Saltair. I've been using this bergamot, sage, and driftwood launch, and it's just so good. All of the scents are amazing, the formulation is amazing, the packaging is amazing, the price point is amazing. It's a product that is special enough to make you feel luxe but not so expensive that you don't want to restock it.
It's more of an investment, but we also like this formula from Eadem. We love the packaging, but we also appreciate the shades because they're interesting—they're not the basic colors so many brands go for. I think the brand really thought about creating something special with the pigment, but the formula also feels so nice on the lips.
I've used YSE Beauty since it first launched, but all three of us unanimously agree that this glowy sunscreen primer is next-level. It has this reflective luminosity to it that's gorgeous and so natural. So many "glow" products give you this false radiance we're not fans of. On the weekend, I love to put it on by itself, and it just blurs the skin a bit. In all honesty, this is a product that's probably marketed more to my age, but the girls love it too.
We had to include these blush sticks from Westman Atelier, even though they're on the spendier side. I am a huge, huge fan of this product. A while back I received a restock of shades, and I told my girls I had extra and asked if they wanted to try. They were like Whoa, now we understand the hype! The formula is super luxurious, and it just stays put and wears so beautifully throughout the day. Our favorite shades are Poppet, Petal, and Bichette.

Tennille Jenkins, a Los Angeles–based beauty, fashion, and wellness content creator, is on a mission to empower women at every stage of life. Her platform, The Tennille Life, has rapidly emerged as a go-to resource for beauty enthusiasts, catering to a diverse audience with interests spanning skincare, natural hair, and the latest in glow-worthy cosmetics. As a mature Black woman, Jenkins champions inclusivity in the digital landscape and the idea that aging is a beautiful gift and privilege. She reminds her audience that it is never too late to pursue one's passions, inspiring countless individuals to embrace their journey with confidence and grace.
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