I'm in My 30s, and This Is How I Shop Topshop Like a Grown-Up

I've heard people saying time and time again that they're too old to shop at Topshop. And, yes, I agree that at first glance Topshop is my 16-year-old daughter's festival dreams right now, as it's filled with crop tops, denim hotpants, and sequins. But as much as I personally avoid those items, I can always emerge from Topshop with a few purchases that fast become wardrobe staples I'm really pleased to wear.

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Some of my most loved wardrobe items that I've picked up over the years are from Topshop. And yes, I have to admit as I've reached my mid-30s, my body's changed, and my style has evolved it's not always as easy as it used to be. I've been shopping at Topshop Oxford Circus since my early teens, I can't think of another store that I've been shopping in since I was 12 and still get as excited about visiting. So to convince anyone who may be assuming they have to throw in their Topshop towel, I've put together the five golden rules that Lou and I stick to when perusing our high-street favorite.

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TAKE YOUR TIME
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The high street has always been a place where you'll run during your lunch break to pick up a few pieces or on your way home from work, but this is when you're likely to leave dejected or make a poor panic purchase. The smash-and-grab process may have worked for us in our 20s, but it rarely does when you reach your 30s. I try to set aside an hour when visiting the Topshop store.

It's important to try pieces on in different sizes (two sizes if, like me, you're in between the sizing in Topshop) and try to make use of the personal shopping service if available. You have the luxury of time, space, and somewhere to leave your belongings. And, of course, the team is on hand should you need any advice.

I go around the store two times in total: My usual routine is to whizz around the shop floor quick, grabbing anything that catches my eye. I then head to Personal Shopping, leave my selection in a room and head back out for a slower, more extended look around. I'll find a few more things, then go back and edit my rail, as I've then had a chance to take it all in. I have a good try on and usually only like a third of my edit, which I'm happy about, as if I loved everything, it would be a problem.

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PAY ATTENTION TO THE CUT
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The cuts and shapes of pieces are so significant. I buy most of my midi dresses from Topshop, as I know they'll be a modern, up-to-date silhouette. The fit of a blouse, the length of a skirt, or the shape of a tee can make all the difference to your look. This is when it's a plus point shopping in a store catering to a generally younger demographic.

Shop perfectly cut midi dresses:

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KEEP CHECKING BACK
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With so many new-in pieces dropping daily, Topshop is always exciting. I try to get into the store every couple of weeks and check online daily (it's my job!) so I don't miss out on any must-have pieces that are sure to be a hit. That's why online sites like Who What Wear UK and blogs like A Style Album are here—we check for you. Polka dots seem to be trending on Topshop right now. I popped in last week, picked up a cute polka-dot blouse, and have my eye on a few other polka-dot pieces too.

Shop polka-dot pieces:

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NEVER FORGET CLASSIC ITEMS
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Topshop is a great place to pick up your classic and basic pieces. I'm a huge fan of its khaki cargo jackets, which the brand tends to update every season. Its jeans are some of the best on the high street (FYI: I stay away from the Leigh, as I find the material way too thin, but I love the Straight-Leg, Dree, and Orson).

Topshop simple T-shirts are the perfect shape and are a great value for $10. In-store now, the brand has an asymmetric blouse available in so many colorways, which will look stylish whether you're 16 or 60. And some of my favorite blazers have been from Topshop.

Shop classic items:

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MORE-EXPENSIVE ITEMS ARE USUALLY WORTH IT
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One of my favourite dresses is from Topshop Boutique—the brand's more premium line that is more expensive than the standard collection—but I've had it for years and still feel special in it. I do believe the quality and design reflect the price, so don't feel like you're being cheated on the high street in this instance.

Shop Topshop Boutique picks:

See Lou and Em's latest Topshop haul below!

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Who are your style icons? 

Lou: Mira Duma 

Em: Elena Perminova

Who are your 3 favourite people to follow on Instagram?

Lou: @lizzyvdligt @thefashionguitar @oneteaspoon_

Em: @tashsefton @damselindior @jenniferfisherjewelry

What are the fashion essentials you can’t live without? 

Lou: Shoes. My current favourites are Gianvito Rossi Portofino.

Em: Jeans. Topshop, Rag & Bone and J Brand are my go-tos.

What's the beauty essential you can’t live without?

Lou: Wild About Beauty’s Lou Bronzer.

Em: Dr Frances Prenna Jones’s Formula.

What would be your desert island album?

Lou: The Definitive Collection, by Stevie Wonder.

Em: Chaos & the Calm, by James Bay.

See more of Lou and Em's fashion, beauty, travel and lifestyle coverage on their site, A Style Album.